https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ntSgWktJ2nE
When we were babies, 'I, or I am' was the first knowledge.
Then we melted this feeling with the feeling and experiemce of the body.
We developed into 'i am the body' -or so we came to believe
Later, we came to believe that we were male or female,
That we posessed things like familly, a father, a mother,
The first conceptual word is I, one can not say 'you' before the 'I' has appeared.
It is the fundamental idea in our life.
In common language we say
My father
My relationship
My trouble
My ego
My body
My eye sight
My feeling
My emotion
Who is the I at the first, who is it that sees all this? The witness of this experience?
Check it out now. Do it. Look within at the sense of 'I'
Does it have a sex? Does it need something?