I could see what was happening and from an ACIM Perspective, told myself that this was a classic case of "level confusion." At the moment when I was upset, I believed I'm a body, a person, hard done by, needing it's "pound of flesh" as remediation.
ACIM is clear that my partner is not to be blamed. The real cause is related to guilt in my mind, and
The projection into the world to remove any guilt from my mind and place it instead in the world. This is the magic ACIM talks about.
Indeed, like magic, the mind wants to put the problem where it is not, but it can not be solved there. (in the world, or in your partner). I can Never solve the problem of guilt in my mind if I'm working on correcting my partner's actions or anything about him.
Fundamentally I am the cause, and further, the cause is the hidden guilt in my mind.
So all I need do is see it. Watch it. Don't blame myself or my partner.
Just see the problem where it is. Then there's release.
So all I need do is see it. Watch it. Don't blame myself or my partner.
Just see the problem where it is. Then there's release.