We are always using relationships, because we need them to define what we are. Our friends help us know what we "like", what we don't like. We move closer directed by desire, we move apart directed by fear.
But the "Unity Principal" has no relationship, since it is One. It knows what it is.
It does not accept some and reject others. It does not move closer or further. Fear nor desire have no impact on it.
It plays no favourites.